Isn't dating cheating a bit? I'm separated not divorced.
Wouldn't that send the wrong message to her? That I simply
don't care about our marriage again? or that I want to get back
at her?

Separated: March 1 * Affair discovered: 20-March * Exposed: 27 March * Def. separation: May 1st *

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