I am in a PANIC that she's mad at me. That is a really BAD character trait! I hate it! I have to be OK with her being mad at me. I need a matra!
I was horribly guilty of that trait through my whole M, and my W totally used it to manipulate me. You are right. It's a bad trait that doesn't honor your faith in yourself that you are a good person.
I am finally ok with my W being mad at me, and it has freed me, and empowered me! Find your mantra and stick to it!
