"The kids are being dropped off to stay with friends at their condos so Marc wouldn't have anyone to hang out with. I am just going to D's (our cousin who lives there) to hang with her while the kids are on the beach. Marc would be bored out of his mind."
I figured as much. It was worth a try though.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
Mish you did try so that is good. Maybe you can have a mini adventure. I try to do at least one a year. Not quite a vacation but just a day or two away. Even just going and spending the night away at a hotel helps. This is what my trip to Branson was.
The kids had a great time(thanks in no small part to K convincing me we needed to go to a show ) You CAN arrange this and it is only for a while. Heck even going to Stone mountain can be fun.
I am rooting for you on this one.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
"I wouldn't ask a roommate to watch my mother for me"
Why not???
If a friend of yours asked for your help so she could get a break, would you think she was intrusive/presumptuous/unloving/weak/mean/whatever, or, would you consider it a reasonable request and try to help you out if you could?
Now, I understand not wanting XH touching your life. I still feel that way a good deal of the time. (This is a good reason not to Facebook, BTW...) BUT, you brought him into your HOUSE. He is LIVING WITH YOU. He's going to touch your life, your Wii, your plans, your mother. So, privacy does not seem a relevant concern at this point.
He is living with you-- and not paying rent! He's not a roomate, he's an arschlocher living on your charity. If he can't pay for his room, then he's got to work it off.
Mish, tonight when you go to sleep I want you think about what he's done, then question WHY he gets to live with you obligation free, then look in the mirror, and promise yourself one thing:
Tomorrow I am going to re-invent what 'being a b!tch' means.
Sleep, rest, dream.
Awake and be that b...........
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Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11
