Thoughts about my sitch- help appreciated

[Jack_Three_Beans]

Bradley,

I respect the hell out of you.

For being a Doctor.

For coming here.

For almost getting it, and by almost I mean you are so close and then skirt back into old defensive modes.


You are an LBS.

You as an LBS had an impact on the failing marriage.

If the LBS doesn't change...and hopefully those changes are the ones the LBS make for themselves...that just happen to fall in line with what makes for a good partner in a relationship...

Then there is little hope for a long term reconcilliation.


Also if you cannot forgive...then this is just as pointless.


For the record.

I never 'called' you a whiney bitch. : )

I said we see you how you present yourself to us.

We all have masks here. We present one side. The reality has more dimensions than that one though.

Edit - Yes, you have made changes...job city, house...but those AREN'T actually the changes I mean, or most here mean...the change is in your and how you see things and react and do.