I'm taking off my ring April 9

[AmyBel]

So. Electronic media is a problem. I posted on facebook last night. some sad things. I quickly deleted them and unfriended some people (her family members) who probably should not have seen them. Assumed I had done that quickly enough because it was midnight. Also unfriended her.

Well. Today she "unmarried" me in Second Life.

I called to say WTF? and she said "Well what about all that facebook chatter?"

She was livid.

I sent her the transcript of the facebook posts (not the deleted ones) in an e-mail saying, here it is, what's the prob?

Then sent a quick note saying: Are you reading my chats?

She wrote back, that's the problem, I can't see your facebook. People are contacting me with condolences and confusion because of what you posted.

I can't refriend her so she can see what is posted because she's hidden.

Besides, This is MY support group on facebook. And she doesn't belong on it any more. I called or wrote the family members and mutual friends who I unfriended to say why (that I'm creating two facebooks, one as a support group and one as more general) and invited them to the general one.

I am in a PANIC that she's mad at me. That is a really BAD character trait! I hate it! I have to be OK with her being mad at me. I need a matra!

Help!