I don't have any expectations or real need to stop her. Yes, I wish she would wait, but can't say that I did......and I understand. I just wish there was something more I could offer about what this will really "mean" to her, to them and her future......from an emotional standpoint, from a parenting standpoint. I don't know, I just feel that this is so HUGE that I want her to know what she's getting in to. BUT, she is very smart. She has a good head on her shoulders, and the BF is a good kid. He once texted me to say that he really believed that my H and I would get back together.....
Me 45 M 25 yrs; T 31 yrs;bomb 8/15/06; moves out 7/18/08 D 18, D 14, S 12