Look back over the thread you just posted. You mention that he said he would feel sad after "YOU LEAVE". Look at how many times you write about how he feels after "YOU LEAVE". He's making you to be the bad guy as if you are abandoning him.
All WASs demonize the LBS to ease THEIR guilt. They put the blame on the LBS and not take any responsibilities for their own actions.
Your H did that when he threatened you and he's doing that now by mentioning YOU leaving. He makes it sound like MAYBE he'll take you back if HE decides to. Again all this is about control.
Your best bet right now is to start concentrating on you. Start looking your best and stop talking to him about his feelings. Concentrate on you for awhile and you'll see him start turning your way a little once he sees you're not paying attention to him.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
