I am in need of some advice. I have been reading divorcebusting for over 4yrs and divorce busting my situation since then too. I have a little voice inside my that says, "Be patient". But I just don't know anymore.
Here is my situation: We were together for 13yrs. Boyfriend and girlfriend for 8yrs, Married 5yrs. Divorced now - for about 2 yrs now.
During our separation, she was dating online. When I found out and approached her about it because she included pics of our children, she denied it, then locked her account to private and then created a new dating account on another website.
When she announced her divorce, she indicated it was because she was mistreated, taken for granted. But later I found out it was because she wanted to see other people. Currently she is dating OM on a regular basis. Both him and her take the girls out to amusement parks.
I just don't know what to do. I have this inner voice, but I think I may still be in denial. I have still have feeling for her. I pray at night for us to get back together. But I just don't know anymore. I got a life of my own. I work out in the morning, I keep myselft busy. I guess I have so much hope inside that it is blinding me of the reality.
