Sorry you had to put up with that BS. It is quite pathetic how our WAS' all tend to complain about how bad they have it in divorce, when they were the ones who decided they did not want to be married to us anymore.
My WAS told me last week that her worst fears had come true, "She had no money and no real home to live in?" WTF, together we made more than enough to live on and had a very nice home to live in - sorry that wasn't good enough for her, but she shouldn't expect me to have sympathy for her now.