Wow, sounds like my STBXH. He always talks about his problems, never ask how I am.

He's always broke and then complains because all I ever talk about is money to him. I wasn't aware I needed to listen to anything else. Isn't that what the OW are for?

But we (you and me) have always been their soft place to fall when the going gets tough.

Tell D that he doesn't have it worse than my H does. He is the only one in the world with stress, an important job and no money. How dare D claim that. MY STBXH is way more important than yours. If you don't believe me ask Him. LOL

I would have hung up too. His problems are not your problems. Just sit and smile and wave cause your crazy train is coming to town.


M:47
M:18
D16, S19
1st S 1/08-5/08
Reconciled/May 7, 2008
Left again Nov 9, 2009
I Filed: Nov 17, 2009
Final: April 14, 2010
EX walked away from kids too