She is telling you that she isn't attracted to you and thinks she may want out.
You are telling her what YOU want. How YOU have the answer to save it..
The problem with that approach is that she still feels you are being selfish.. It is all about YOU.. You are basically saying to her..."I don't care what you want, give me what I want. I want to work on this, the hell with you and what you feel. Give me what I want. Give me give me give me"
That is why the harder you try to do this with your approach the more you will learn that approach doesn't work. It doesn't get her to love you back. All it does is confirm her position in her own mind. She just goes through the motions. She is thinking.."give me what I WANT"
She seems to want out. Are you willing to give her that?
