OTM, you can't just tell her. you need to SHOW her and she needs to feel it and believe it. does your wife know about the porn? i know my H watched it and while it didn't bother me, it didn't feel too good, either. even though we had a very healthy sex life. my feeling was always like, why do you need THAT when you have ME, who is alive and real and right in front of you??

and i agree with whoever said love makes someone attractive to you.

thanks for all your thoughts on my thread!


Me30 H29
M2.5 T5
H moved out 1/23/2010
H wants signed agreement 3/30/2010
...feeling hopeless