My marriage is my first, but second for my STBXW. The statistics say 50% of first marriages end in divorce, and 60% of second marriages. In my case, my W definitely has more of a "no big deal" attitude about it, while I feel likek my life came crashing down around me. Is it because she was the WAW in an A, and I was the LBS, or because it's her second M and my first?