Ah, sex takes too long. Yes, I got that answer from my hubby. He was only interested in quickies for him and "never had the time" for my needs. I would occasionally take a stance against this, aside from my usual ranting and crying over it. I would ban giving him sex and he would just turn to porn I later found out during the drought.

I think porn is why real sex is not that enjoyable- it does that to you I think....

M38, H37
S3, S7
Together 15 yrs
Married 8 yrs
Bomb July 2008
Inhouse separation
"I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count)
Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)