She has always been a people pleaser, and now she's going the other way.

I liked that she was going to IC, but this I believe is something she talked her C into. She's really going hard with this one. That is why she brought up to me "this is the old W coming back" in our conversation last weekend.

Poor thing, she doesn't even realize that this has never been her. This is something she's talked herself into thinking she needs to be. My D has mentioned that W has always been strong and more the mean one between the two of us. Unfortunately, that's absolutely true.

She's trying to hard to be something she's not or has never been. it's really sad to see our W be so lost and confused.


Married 18
Me 39
W 37
D 15
D 5
Divorce Filed 8 April 2010
Beginning of Reconcile 8 Sept