My husband is addicted to an emotional affair

[nicole8]

I am not sure what to do. The "ghandi" thing does sound interesting. I just don't know what the h would do. He is so on the fence about everything in his life right now and I do think he really is going through a depression/mlc of some sort. He even said something yesterday that maybe he was going to go through the rest of his life depressed..,,but it isn't fair to me to be with someone who is misserable. Again he thinks there is nothing wrong with me snd he isnt being fair to me. Damn right he isn't being fair to me. He is over at the all inclusive resort on vacation (his moms house) carrying on another life with the ow while his wife Is living in realty 5miles away at our house.....Grrrrr!

I wrote a letter last night basically telling my husband that I am fine if he doesn't choose to be with me and that only he can make himself happy, not me, family, job, new relationship only himself. There was more but I am not sure I should give it to him. My db coach has said I should fear in him by going dark a few days at a time.....