In your sitch was the H still living with you for that year or was he out of the house?
He was in the house from February until July...I went to work one day and he had packed up and left while I was gone...No note, nothing...Sent me a text about 7 hours later letting me know he wasn't coming back...He hasn't been back since.
Again - His loss.
May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~