I almost posted the exact same thing Bworl just posted to you...and would have if I didn't read his first.
Maybe today isn't the best day to be here for you. Maybe we shouldn't be giving you advice right now...because I think alot of it is going to be the same.
If one person calls you a horse, you punch him in the face. If two people call you a horse, you should walk away. If three people call you a horse, maybe its time to start looking at saddles.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK