Took off my ring. Put it on a chain. Cancelled her being my support person for my surgery next tuesday. My Aunt will do it. What she says: "I'm in love with this other person and want to end this marriage" What she does: drive down to my internship to help me drive home after eyesight scare. Stand by the bed looking forlorn. Tell me she didn't sleep, can't eat, had a hard night. (I took sleeping pills and slept, once I got to bed.)
What I do in response? say "OK", be the first one to end the phone call or the conversation. Focus on the things I need to be doing (like major internship things that affect my whole future.) Ask her to sleep at her dad's house. Pack up the marriage things and store them away.
What else?
Amybel
M: 46, WAW:47 M: 12y T: 16y EA with OW 2/26/10 Bomb 3/9 "in love w/ my ex" MC 3/12 NC 3/17 Bomb 3/31 "D on April 9 Trial Sep 4/1 http://tinyurl.com/amybelstory