Based on all that I have read and witnessed I think most WAS are done when they say they are done and anything more is cake eating or an attemp to get the LBS "on board" with an easy divorce. I don't doubt for a second the WAS may be hurt of confused or in their own pain but when *most* (not all) people make the declaration they are done, well, they are.
I think you are right.
Me: 45 WAW: 45 | M22 | T25 | No Kids Nov 09 W Filed | Dec 09 Separation Mar 17 2010 Divorce Papers Signed | Divorce Hearing Cancelled Moved back home May 2010 PA Confirmed June 2010 | W left Dec 7 2010
