How many here have been married before?

[MrBond]

"What I don't understand is how so many LBS's believe that they are the only "best" option for the WAS."

I don't think it's that the LBS believes they are the "best" option. It's the fact that they are married and in a marriage you work things out through the good times and bad. When a WAS leaves because they just "fell out of love" or "found their true soulmate" in someone else is a load of BS.

What you don't feed will die in any relationship. Even with people whom you think are your "soulmate". I personally know many couples who D and remarried because the WAS who left found out they really didn't like what they thought they wanted.