How to approach W about OM

[OfficerInNeed]

So the new bed set was delivered today. My W participated in the assembly. Once all completed she wanted to take a ride somewhere, I said I would join her because I had to go to the same place.

My wife then said "we need to get some patio furniture." And I said "we can go and look" 10 min later I comeback and said "where did you want to go look for the furniture" she then replied "I didn't want to, that's up to you if you want it. Your the one who will be spending the money" she then walks out the room and back in and said "you ever figure out what your going to do with the mortgage once I leave?" And I replied "I thought about it before yes" so in return she said "because your going to have a lot of payments" and walked out the room again.... Wow