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I have given her everything for the last 8 months . Whatever she says... I do. Jump.. how high. call-- I answer. text... I respond. so I'm tired. yes I'm tired.



How long did she go along with a version of Bradley that was less than what she thought she was marrying?


How long did she get left-overs instead of your best?


How long was she second, or third, or fourth on your priority list?


How long was she mother AND father?


I don't mean to minimize what you've been dealing with over the last 8 months. We all remember well how difficult it is.


You have however fessed up from the beginning that your wife had reason to be displeased/unsatisfied. You said you DID have things that needed to be made right about how you handled the role of husband and father.


Doesn't justify her having an affair.


But her having an affair doesn't give you a free pass either.



Bill


"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."