D14 said that W is starting to use it on her. last time my D14 got grounded my W said she wasn't going to compromise because she always has compromised, and once she makes a decision now that's going to be it. We both believe W is trying way too hard.
One thing I've learned is when people change because they see something that is dysfunctional for them, they will swing way over the other way. Like a pendulum swinging.
They will swing back and forth in order to find the center point. So if someone has been a people pleaser they will swing way over and become very selfish and self-centered. When they see that's not working, they will swing the other way.
Sometimes those swings can happen in days, months or even years. It depends on the context of the change.
MySitch Me-47 STBXW-41 D-5 S-8 ILYBNILWY-01/08 Want a D- 01/09 Physical Sep-01/10 D filed-06/10 Got 50% custody=09/11 Ride that wave!
