Honestly, you do sound kind of mean to your W. It is very cruel to constantly harp on how unattractive your W is to you. I am sorry but it is. It makes you sound like an ass then you say "I am just being honest". Well, I am being honest too. You sound mean and picky and you lust after women other than your W.
If I see this on a message board what do you think your W sees on a day to day basis?
