Given what you said above, the only reason to gather intel is as Puppy says, to help your D case in the event that you don't live in a 'no fault' state. This could prove to be very important but it also sounds like you are close to finalizing your D and therefore agreements may already be in place for custody/support?
ME/XW:47 S21, D19, S15, S14 M:21 T:26 W moved 6/10 I filed 7/10 D final 4/12 remarried 8/12 W wants to R 12/10 and 4/11 but I decline
