Thanks friends! Good ideas. I am feeling better today, got through a grueling work event yesterday, got some sleep.
Had a moment of lucidity that's probably obvious to you & others:
I am not taking care of myself physically, emotionally, socially. So of course I feel like crap!
So "busy" I'm not eating right/enough, not getting enough sleep, not reaching out to people, not being around people.
Now after reading your posts it's clearer too. I need the kick in the rear. Thanks for the thoughts. I'm adding the goal of putting these ideas into practice.
Another goal: Email to H that I'm moving & the dreaded dividing up of big "stuff" (not really much though). Would rather do by email than "meeting" if possible.
So, thoughts again are welcome.
Would you mind giving feedback on this email to H?
"Hi, I will be moving out hopefully in a few weeks to brother's. I am going to start moving some stuff this weekend but can't fully move in as the room isn't ready yet.
We haven't talked @ how to split stuff in the house but here are my ideas.
I'd like to take the bed, dresser, desktop computer & one of the TVs. Please let me know if you had other thoughts.
As for the big stuff I am open to discussion on how to divide:
Dining rm set TV big Leather chair China Crystal Dishes Cookware Artwork thought we'd just keep what was ours before. Thanks
Also, I just paid my student loan pymt. out of joint checking, but am depositing a check from my account to cover it, so that will hit in a few days.
Thanks for the good thoughts, the ideas and the push I need to work on the GAL & goals. I've been bad about checking in on your threads this week but will try.
Aver, I know I'm not much help to you but sending you hugs and lots of support. Pearl thanks for checking - hope all is great with you!
