I was giving you advice. Do you now see how being direct and to the point may also be one of YOUR problems in dealing with your wife and how it may make her feel when YOU just blurt things out?

I will repeat it. You need to LEARN how to make a woman feel like a woman. You need to learn it FAST.

You need to get this porn addiction completely out of your life.
This is more than likely part of the attraction issue and needs to be eliminated once and for all.

You need to STOP saying that you didn't love her or was attracted to her when you married. (even to yourself)


Those are your first 3 steps I recommend.