Doesn't really matter what her family is for or not.
Where did you here that the OM is getting divorced?
Remember. Married men are known for lying to their mistress about getting divorced.
If you haven't heard it from him or his wife then I would still be a little suspect.
You may need to contact his wife directly to see what she knows and her views on things. This would give you a better view of the actual facts from a good source.
