Is yours a "fault" state for divorce? If adultery can be proven, would it help your settlement?

I'm as pro-intel as anyone here, for TONS of reasons, but at this stage, I'm not sure how helpful it can be. Usually, you want it either to:

1. Initially confirm an affair

2. Gather evidence for a "fault" divorce and/or custody battle.

3. Confirm no-contact, once a no-contact and transparency plan have been mutually agreed to.

4. if you suspect drug, alcohol or physical abuse, or anything else that might put your spouse or your family in danger.

I just don't see any of those applying in your sitch.

Puppy