dday,

It's not only the "Daddy Praise", it's things he says in front of her to get back to me. It's like he wants me to get mad or cry and to react. Is this normal behavior for a WAS to do this? To get the kids to come home and hope that they tell us something to either hurt us or to get to us?

As far as the money thing goes, I know that it doesn't take money to do things. But it the one week she came home from a visit and said "Daddy got a new tv, but don't tell him I told you." I just said "that's nice, don't worry I won't say anything." She knows that it would start a fight because he is all for himself right now. He ruined our credit and doesn't pay on loans and charges that he should have.

But anyway, I'm there at his apartment 2 weeks ago and he says to me "See the new t.v. I got, it only took me 3 weeks to save." I just said "Yeah". He knows how me and the kids are struggling, and throws it in my face how he can afford to buy things that he doesn't even need.


Last edited by Goodfight; 04/01/10 03:06 PM.

M 41
H 35
D 12
S 18
Separated 11/08