10 days of no contact now. I still haven't pulled the trigger on the refi. W did ask about it last time we spoke but did not get angry, but reminded me the next payment was coming due.
After she exploded the bomb, she was asking about the refi and other property split constantly. It was like she was trying to arrange a fast clean uncontested asset split as soon as possible.
I am hopeful that time away will mellow her, as I was unable to get her to slow down before she left.
It is hard to resist the temptation to call her and tell her she needs to come home so we can work it out, change our situation to meet our needs, etc.
