Hi All. I have been struggling with the question . . .

"How far do I go to get the truth?"

In my situation, I am convinced my W is still in contact with her EA partner but I do not have any hard evidence to confront her with. We are very close to finalizing our divorce so, for me, does it really matter? Do I really need to know?

I am very savvy with technology (GPS Tracking, Key Stroke Loggers, Voice Activated Recorders, etc) and could easily monitor every move she makes. However, I have resisted taking these steps. It doesn't feel right to me. The thought of invading someone's privacy like this makes me feel creepy (even if the motivation is to expose an affair). I have decided not to do these things because it makes me feel bad about myself.

I am curious what other think / feel about this topic.

Last edited by mrbt; 04/01/10 02:40 PM.

Me: 45 WAW: 45 | M22 | T25 | No Kids
Nov 09 W Filed | Dec 09 Separation
Mar 17 2010 Divorce Papers Signed | Divorce Hearing Cancelled
Moved back home May 2010
PA Confirmed June 2010 | W left Dec 7 2010