Kemper, you are not supossed to remember when I say such things...lol.
To be honest I am not sure. I am in a better place but I think that is more related to time and acclimating to the sitch. The ex and I seem to be arguing more, but not about us. More about the kid's schedule and other stupid logisitical stuff. I think over time we will be friends but that will not happen until I can forgive and forget...hopefully. It is nice not having to talk about the D and dealing with the L.