Enabling WHAT, exactly? Her affair? She's already admitted to it, and they're divorcing. Other than downplaying the physical nature of it, I don't even see her being that deceitful.
Exposure should be done to SAVE THE MARRIAGE, early on. Immediately, swiftly and forcefully. To do it at the end, in this mindset, is only going to make him look small and vindictive to her and her family -- and even his own kids.
