How many here have been married before?

[gman]

I was just wondering, because we all seem to think our WAS, or, if you'll excuse the expression, MLC'ers, are "confused" and "in the fog" and that once they wake up, draw a sober breath, etc, etc, they will see the error of their ways and come running back to us.

I see the WAS "confused" or in a "fog" just as an addict who acts while under the infleunce - once they sober up they may see the damage they caused and want to return and rebuild what was there, but there is also the chance the will just move on to their next addiction and not look back.

Most WAS go on to be happy somewhere else and never give a second thought. Why would they?

depending on the situation i guess - kids, no kids, change in LBS, thing of that nature probably have an affect on "most people" and if they want to return