What happens in fiction is well scripted to make sure it looks like it is plausible and will work, in these kind if sitch's. Real life is not always so neat.
I saw it happen on the screen and I knew for a FACT I wouldn't want that to happen to me.
And later on that night I realized that OIN and the OMW in the affair he's dealing with did this to OM. It has more or less been tried and tested here on this forum and it did work well. OMW went berzerk on OIN's wife and it DID scare her off and get her to think a bit about what she was doing... and it completely flattened OM since he worked in the same place.
Originally Posted By: saffie
Personally I think by confronting OW completely in the way you suggested Allen, would actually make passenger look needy and on the hop. It was just a bit too OTT - like the old saying about 'protesting too much'.
I don't think so, but offering an idea that can be moulded to suit the user is fine... My objective is to offer ideas that can be refined rather than leaving a poster with a blank page with nothing to work with at all.
Originally Posted By: saffie
I don't believe that OW's M is probably only platonic, and personally that is where I would start my attack from.
Unfortunatley this is often harder to come by... cell phone records and emails will often reveal contact info for OP, but not often their spouse. But yes if it can be acquired I definitely reccomend taking the fight to thier doorstep.
