What I don't understand is how so many LBS's believe that they are the only "best" option for the WAS. To me, this plays into the notion that there is just one "soulmate" for each of us. I'm calling B.S.
Most WAS go on to be happy somewhere else and never give a second thought. Why would they? Those of us who have been married before do not pine away for our former spouses, we find another. And they don't miss us either.
Well, maybe some can't get over it and get stuck forever. And that's just sad.