Originally Posted By: volleydog
SO2...I could see this as one of two things, as you said no woman in his life now...or...he's hitting bottom.


While I would like to think its door #2, I do think its door #1...with good intentions. LOL

I really think exh wants the right things in life, he is just so messed up that he makes these knee jerk reactions based on how he is feeling at that moment.

If I did something that made him frustrated or mad, instead of talking it out or working it through he would call another woman to get that lift (self admitted). He has no clue how to work through problems and instead just makes rash decisions.

Yesterday when he was here venting about his job situation (which is a bit more than just being slow), he said I am going to work for my brother. He has tons of work. Well, that is 4 hours away, he wants to start a division here were we live of his brothers business. How does he know it would do any better? He doesn't even know that type of business. He won't quit where he is. He is just venting. He has it too good there given his issues.


Me: 46 FWS: 36
Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07
Baby Girl born 3/08
Kicked him out because OW: 7/08
5/10 He realized what he had and lost.
Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!