My stepdaughter will be 21 on April 17. The OW just turned 26 in March. Not much of an age difference. He says she wont smoke pot after the baby is born. Which I dont believe for a minute. She used to smoke 2 - 3 joints a night before she got pregnant. He also wants to get a paternity test but I really don't know if he will or not.
I am trying very hard to stay dark and it seems to get easier each day. I haven't talked to him since Saturday. I did email him yesterday because the lawyer called and I basically relayed what the lawyer said. Nothing personal. He did reply but the tone of his message sounded angry (not at me) but about the bankruptcy maybe? So normally when I would email I would then send a text later or call to see if he got it and I didn't do that at all. I was quite proud of myself. I'm not going to respond to his email until I have more information from the lawyer's secretary. Which is unusual also for me because I would normally keep emailing him.
This is hard because he isn't the man I fell in love with. I so miss my friend and he hasn't really been a friend for a long time.
