mza I don't get the whole house thing.Is she looking to get the money from the house? Are you in a position to buy her out?
I know for me if/when I meet to discuss the agreement, I think I would rather sell the house. I don't want to buy my W out.
I was also thinking if we do reconcile I would still consider selling the house to get a fresh start some where else. this is just my feelings.
on another topic:
you said you have phone sessions with a DB coach and goto IC like me. Do you find yourself teaching your IC about this process?
Sometimes I feel I am the one running the session. I get conflicting advice from my IC and my coach. I always follow my coach's advice, she has been trained in handling this type of situation.
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