mza
I don't get the whole house thing.Is she looking to get the money from the house? Are you in a position to buy her out?

I know for me if/when I meet to discuss the agreement, I think I would rather sell the house. I don't want to buy my W out.

I was also thinking if we do reconcile I would still consider selling the house to get a fresh start some where else.
this is just my feelings.

on another topic:

you said you have phone sessions with a DB coach and goto IC like me.
Do you find yourself teaching your IC about this process?

Sometimes I feel I am the one running the session. I get conflicting advice from my IC and my coach.
I always follow my coach's advice, she has been trained in handling this type of situation.


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