long time lurker. little background first. m 42 w 45. 4 kids. married 18 years. bombed ilybinilwy early oct 09. confirm ea 3 months later, suspected from beginning. brand new info yesterday!!!
found a love note from W to OM stating how they are going to be together forever i love you. you speak to my heart and soul.. blah blah blah.
until now w has just said he is a friend going through the same thing, could see dating him in the future....
We have been seperated 3 months. she has filed D, I suppose so she can marry him. Time to blow this f@cker up. I am going to see her today and plan on dropping the bomb back on her. Looking to see if I should bring love note and show or what proper procedure would be. Filled in laws in already (they are pissed and they promised not to say anything until tommorrow.) i have made many copies of love note and plan on exposing to everyone who would pressure this. W and Om work together and i will decide in the next few weeks if I decide to get them fired.
anyways need advice on the right way to do this. I am very much in control and my emotions are in check. I have felt this was the case all along, but just got the proof I needed yesterday.
