Stop trying to Act.

Start being what you are. You are married.


How do you combat a look.

You look her in the eyes and you smile.

As you fully know it is just a deflection of the problem

You wife wants to be desired.

So you desire her. And if you desire her. There is no other woman in that room.

Just you and her.

Ever romanced her ?


If not. Have you ever wanted to romance a woman?

Write down what you would like to do to romance a woman.

Then act it out.

For romance takes planning and effort. Romance then builds. For it needs to be fed with passion , effort , and love.



As for your evening. A success no less. Build off it. Learn what works and what does not. Learn what you like and what your wife likes.

For there is no greater pleasure in the laugh of a woman who knows she is desired and thought of with passion. You will see the smile in her eyes.

Start learning this stuff OTM.

And keep with chores around the house. All of this adds up to a new and better marriage with the woman you love.

Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul.
unconditional love is awesome!