You're older and he's older. Both of you learned something different the first time it happened and because you never fully dealt with the problem there was never a real resolution to it.
That's why it seems different now.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.