Hi brenalim,

I am sorry you find yourself here.

Do you knonw who your H is having his A with? Is the OW married or single?

Do you know why he felt the need to have an A? has he said anything about it?

Do you have any children? What are your ages? Is this a first M for you both?

As Mr Bond said, the more details the better.

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength