Alcohol lowers a person's inhibitions. In your H's case, he's been consciously avoiding you, shunning your touch, etc. But the alcohol allowed him to not remember that he's supposed to be ignoring you.
I'm sorry that it seemed so positive. He shouldn't have done that. Confront him as soon as possible for your sake and your self respect. He can't be using you when it's convenient for him.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.