Down The Divorce Road

[markhaving probs]

I have had a dilemma that ended with the usual rubbish from my W.

As all of my savings are going into solicitors, any spare money that I would have given my children is used to keep my head above water.

Because my D11 is going on a school trip, my W sent her payment book and assumed without discussion with me, I would be paying. I wrote a cheque out for one installment, gave the cheque to her teacher and asked him to return the paying-in book to my W.

I also included a note saying she wanted this divorce, and to be able to re-start my life I am having to use expensive solicitors to secure a reaonable financial settlement for me and my children. I also told her to refer any of her issues to her solicitor.

She had also removed photographs from the house without consulting me, therefore I removed all the childrens pictures from our dressing table. It may sound childish, but I am not going to see the pictures she took ever again.

Because she is so selfish she called my letter pathetic and not putting my children first. I am sure she actually believes what she says, which makes her an unpleasant person, or is it the cloud she is still in?