MLC, H and me

[courageous wife]

Thanks HB! If boundaries don't work for MLC, why are we encouraged to set them? Is it for me? I am truly done trying to "fix" him!!! As much as it kills me, I know that there is not a dang thing I can do to help him. It is all about me and the kids now! My co-worker/friend mentioned to watch out that H may try to "reason" with me knowing what a soft heart I have and what a pushover I have been and try to sweet talk me into letting him keep the truck when I mentioned to her about H probably going to be po'd about bringing the truck home. I will have to stand firm...

I think I am fully ready to handle it either way...although...funny story...the dogs were outside this morning and heard them barking...looked out the window and saw tails a waggin' and my heart jumped and stomach lurched thinking that H was here and around the corner came an older lady and a younger one helping her and then worried about the dogs knocking the older one down and then realized that they were of a certain religion coming to spread the word!!!! Anyway, the point is I thought I was going to be sick when I thought it was H...

He can be as mad as he wants to be I think the worst has already happened as far as, he has already left.