PLEASE READ THE THREAD TITLED "The Ghandi Approach" in the infidelity forum. I think it will give you an idea and help you formulate a plan on what to do next in regards to DB. Sorry to hi-jack your thread but I just see you making some mistakes that I was guilty of making before I moved out of my marital home. I was not able to detach while under the same roof and the disrespect of an EA was not something I could stomach any longer :-/
anyway, you don't want to ask your husband questions about why this or why that...those questions are PRESSURE and pressure is NOT what you want to give to your husband. LET THE OW PRESSURE HIM...MEN in your husband's state of mind don't do well with pressure...
there is more in the infidelity forum...READ THERE NOW WHILE GOING DIM (don't initiate contact, don't answer all his calls or texts, be vague but NOT cold, etc.) ON YOUR HUSBAND.
Me: 28 H: 32 1st marriage 4 both 1 1/2 year married 2gether for 9 1S: 6months 1stepson: 2yo
