1) If we date now then he doesn't have to sign with L's and the sep date moves like he wanted.
2) Or if he must sign, he will leave the country and start a new life and I will have to raise the kids entirely on my own.
3)Or, can we try again. And if it works great. And if it fails, see 1 or 2 above!!
Number 2 sounds like a threat to force you into number 1 or 3. Unless it's reality. If it's reality, is it TOTALLY NEW or something he was interested in in the past? If he just pulled it out of his hat, France sounds foggy.
Back to can you number 1, date him without dragging the kids into it and seeing what happens? I'm not sure how you would even know if reconciliation is a possibility without spending some time with him at this point.
Spending some time with him may allow you to find out whether or not he has resolved his habitual going outside the relationship tendencies. Maybe it could be discussed. Not sure how else you would no unless you're ready just to call it a day and D.
And you may be. I'm not sure how much b.s. exactly he has put you through.
